Please wear formal green and earthy hues to hear our special "I do's"

Please arrive at 4:40pm so the ceremony can start at 5pm sharp

The ceremony will be held in a heated glass greenhouse inside and the reception will be on the grass outdoors.

We will have more information on this soon

In celebration of our faith, our wedding will be alcohol-free, but don’t worry—we’ve got something even better! Join us for a cozy coffee hour with an unlimited coffee bar, where you can enjoy delicious brews and specialty drinks all night long!

We request an unplugged ceremony—please refrain from taking photos or videos so we can all be fully present in the moment. After the ceremony, we welcome you to take and share as many pictures as you’d like at the reception! We will be sharing photos and videos taken by our photographers to this website following the wedding.

I (Kristian) was visiting with my then new friend Blake in the car one day. After I had made a remark about healthcare in the United States and Blake suddenly gave me a funny look. "You... really remind me of my sister Lacey sometimes." He said. "You should meet her." I was very dismissive of Blake's comment. I was very focused on my school and serving and I didn't see much room in my life for romance, nor did I have the energy to sustain the drama which generally accompanies it. Fast forward a few weeks and we were having a Friendsgiving celebration at our church young adults group. Someone had told me that Lacey was coming to the gathering. I mentally told myself not to worry, that she probably wasn't even that attractive. Then she walked into the room, and time seemed to stand still as she glided over to a group of her friends. Well so much for her not being attractive, that ship has sailed. I thought to myself; it's no cause for concern, she probably doesn't have the kind of character that I'm looking for in a spouse. Some essential background, I have always had a strong conviction about letting others serve up food first. I heard from an old marine the adage Leaders Eat Last. I have tried to adhere to this as best I could. As I waited to get my food, I noticed that Lacey wasn't getting food either. Finally I mustered the courage to ask her why she wasn't getting her food. "I like waiting to eat last to be polite." She replied. I knew in that moment I was in way over my head, and from that point onwards, I was very interested in Lacey Cargill.

We spent Memorial Day weekend with our families on the Big Island of Hawaii. On November 9th, after a wonderful day on the beach snorkeling and swimming, we went to a quiet piece of beach and ate chocolate covered strawberries and all of Lacey's favorite snacks. Kristian then got down on one knee and asked the question. Since Lacey's yes, we've been happier than ever!

We love serving in the church, hiking, reading, going to museums, traveling around the world, playing video games, talking about medicine or nutrition, trying new restaurants, learning new languages, and board games

Yes! We are blessed to be able to go to a private bungalow in Fiji.

Please pray for us in all that we do, and visit our registry page!

Kristian will be attending medical school at the University of Arizona in 2026 to achieve his MD. Lacey will be pursuing her Nursing career and developing her skills and passion for the ER and NICU. Eventually Kristan and Lacey hope to do medical missions work across the globe.